BESIDE OR BESIDES THE POINT?
I venture to propose that in all languages, speakers doubt and hesitate about usage. This is normal, but it is our responsibility to be alert and learn the right way to use grammar, vocabulary, and phraseology. I remember a friend saying in Spanish le echaron con quejas destempladas , instead of the correct cajas destempladas . Of course, cajas destempladas makes no sense, but it is the correct form of the idiomatic expression. Today I was torn between beside the point and besides the point . So I checked. The Spanish venir o no venir a cuento (al caso) has the English equivalent be beside the point . William L. Miller, in his Media and Voters (1991), writes: “Whether Congress and the President behave in accordance with the spirit of the Constitution and the Bill of Rights is beside the point.” In case of doubt, check it out. There is usually a reason behind our linguistic misgivings.